Be honest with your words and do not use jargon. Common phrases like, "They're in a better place" minimize the grief experience. There's no shame in admitting that you don't know what to say.

Physical connection goes a long way if you are unable to express yourself verbally. Ways to demonstrate this are: sitting in silence, giving hugs, holding hands, and active listening.

Anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays can be difficult times for grievers. Receiving cards and phone calls are reminders that bereaved and deceased siblings have not been forgotten.